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Bath, Body & EdenFantasys

2012-01-28T07:21:00.001-05:00

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If this crazy winter weather is drying out your skin, EdenFantasys has just what you need. From the Holiday Handful Trio to the Venus Body Butter, you are covered! And the best part? Affordable prices! Currently the Whipped Body Creme Lotion is on sale as part of the Save the Date promotion!

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Attention All Followers!

2012-01-27T09:32:00.000-05:00

Way back when I had 400 followers (and I thought that was a lot!) I decided I wanted to get to know my followers! I asked a bunch of questions and set out on a quest to follow your recommendations in a series I called You Inspire Me.

So, now that I have over 900 followers (holy crap!) I want to do it again! If you are reading, please answer! I look forward to your answers!

1) What is your name and the link to your blog?
2) Where is your favorite place to vacation?
3) If you had to eat one thing for the rest of your life, what would it be?
4) If you are a MilSpouse, where are you stationed? What branch?
5) Recommend a book, movie or recipe.
6) Tell me one thing you would love for me to blog about!

Family Fun Fridays! January 27 - 29

2012-01-27T07:51:00.001-05:00

There are a bunch of fun things going on in town this weekend! Get out and have some fun....and you might even see me at a few of these events!

Friday, January 27
6 @ New River Fitness Center - Third Annual Chili Cook Off! $15/couple, adults ONLY!
7 @ Cherry Point Station Theater - Comedian Mollie Gross. I'm sure tickets are sold out, call before you go!
8 @ Thalian Hall in Wilmington - Dad's Garage Improv Theater. $14 - $25

Saturday, January 28
2:00 @ Tarawa Terrace Community Center. Free Backpack Repack.
5:30 - 8:00 North Carolina History Center in New Bern. Oyster Roast - A Benefit for Tryon Palace. $35 includes food and live music!
5:30 @ Duplin Winery. Murder Mystery: Lights, Camera, Action. $55 for tour, tasting, dinner and show!

Sunday January 29
If you know of anything fun going on...please let me know!

Plan Ahead!
February 10 - 11 Murder Mystery Theater. $7 per person includes show and buffet! Tickets on sale at the Tarawa Terrace Community Center...this show will sell out!
February 11 - Sweet Celebrations at Duplin Winery.

Every day except Sunday - Free tours and tasting at Duplin Winery
Also, visit Huffman Vineyards in Richlands Wednesday - Saturdays 9 - 5

Thursday Five

2012-01-26T00:01:00.013-05:00

Happy Thursday!

It's that time again...grab the list and link up!

Happy

Thrilled

Joyed

Ecstatic

Elated

I'm happy that the latest Food Network magazine has a ton of low-cal options. Now I can make healthy meals for me and Hubby, instead of pretending to like salads!

My great grandmother has been crocheting again. I'm thrilled that she promised me one...even though promised two other people the same one!

Last night we thought we were going out for a quick second, so we left Miley out out of the cage. Two hours later we strolled in....and I am joyed to say she didn't destroy anything!

I'm ecstatic that we got a head start on our taxes. However, I hate hate hate doing taxes, I wish I never started Avon and I'm so happy that I never have to deal with that crap again.

Danny got another round of credit reports in the mail. It appears that it went from 11 pages to 1 pages. If I'm interpreting it right....man, I'm elated!

2012.

2012-01-25T08:26:00.000-05:00

So, it's 2012. The year I have been fearing since I first learned about the Mayans. And I swear, news of the end of the world is following me. This weekend I went to my parents - a Popular Mechanics magazine was on the counter with the "twelve ways the world could end." A few hours later I was on a plane and the History Channel was highlighting the same information. And yesterday I logged into Yahoo only to find that there were solar flares on Sundays.

I don't think the world is going to end on December 21, like the Mayans predicted. But I do think something wacky is going on out there. This "winter" weather is crazy. New England has barely had any snow and I rarely need a jacket in North Carolina. The compete opposite of my last two years in North Carolina. And there have been tornadoes this month. Really? It's January!

Something isn't right.

People like to tell me that the Mayans just got tired and stopped working on the calendar. Or that pollution is just causing the change in the weather - to which I say, if pollution can do this...what else can it do? Also, I've heard people say that 2012 is just a "new beginning." Again, weather changes caused dinosaurs to die off....but it was also a new beginning.

I'm sure my fear is completely unreasonable. But if there's one thing you can't pick up on my blog - it's that I'm a pessimist, always fearing and expecting the worst.

So, what do you think is going on out there?

I've Been Tagged!

2012-01-24T07:53:00.001-05:00

Three pretty ladies tagged me! Whit, Taryn, and Allie have tagged me!

The Rules

1. You must post the rules (and link up who tagged you.)

2. Post eleven fun facts about yourself on the blog post.

3. Answer the questions the tagger set for you in their post, and then create eleven new questions to ask the people you've tagged.

4. Tag however many people you want.

5. Let them know you've tagged them!

11 Facts About Me

1. Brunch is my favorite meal - it was even served at our wedding!

2. Me and Danny married after knowing each other less than a year.

3. I've been to over 100 concerts. NSYNC was my first, Paul McCartney was my last. And I've seen Kenny Chesney 16 times.

4. Peanut butter and chocolate is my favorite combination.

5. I love traveling. I've been to England, France, Ireland, St. Thomas, Aruba and Jamaica. But I've never been west of Ohio.

6. I'm 26 and just now working on getting my license.

7. I love Monopoly for the same reason why everyone hates it - it lasts forever!

8. I always order the item on the menu that has everyone asking "what the heck is that?"

9. I love a good SVU marathon!

10. I hate talking on the phone. I'm a pro-texter though.

11. I love living in North Carolina, but miss Massachusetts everyday.

Whit's Questions

1. What did you want to be when you grew up? A teacher, I even went to school for it for a semester.

2. Favorite activity to do outside? I'm not an outdoorsy person. I'll sit on the beach or go out in the boat. Zip-lining was fun though!

3. If you could eat one thing for the rest of your life, what would it be? Pizza.

4. The best thing that has happened to you? Um, I don't think anything bad has really even happened to me. So, I guess....life in general has been pretty amazing!

5. Name one person you look up to? My Mom. She is the most generous, amazing person you will ever meet.

6. One thing you can't live without? My phone. It's my connection to everyone.

7. A goal you want to finish before the year is done? Get my license. Finally.

8. All time favorite movie that you could watch every day? Ferris Buellers Day Off. I'm pretty positive I watched this every day the summer before Sophomore year.

9. Wine or beer? Depends where I am, who I'm with, what I'm eating. I'm just not a fan of hard liquor. Exception: margaritas.

10. If you could be an animal, what would you be? A dog, specially Miley or Roxy...because they are spoiled.

11. Something you've learned since starting your blog? A good friend doesn't have to be someone you know in person!

Taryn's Questions

1. What time do you like to get up on Saturday mornings? I haven't been able to sleep in in a long time. I'm usually up at 7:15...I'd love to sleep until 8!

2. Where would you visit if time and resources were no object? Australia and New Zealand.

3. What is your favorite fragrance? I have a Bali body spray from Avon that's been discontinued...it reminds me of vacation. I'm trying to preserve as much of it as possible!

4. Do you enjoy people watching? Why or why not? If yes, where is you favorite place to "watch?" Love it, people are so funny when they don't think others are watching them. The airport is always fun.

5. What did you want to be when you were little? A teacher.

6. Cats or dogs? I'm 110% a dog person.

7. Describe your favorite pizza. Crispy crust and lots of gooey cheese. Everything else is just extras.

8. Where would you like to retire? Disney World. Not just Florida, I want to live at Disney World.

9. Best memory? That's such a hard question, I have favorite memories from all different points of my life. Examples? Disney for the first time, my wedding day, any time I'm with my family.

10. Which store would you choose to max-out your credit card? This is how you know I'm a budgetter...this question is hard! I'd love to say Anthropologie...but it's so expensive! If I choose Target, I can get more for my money!

11. Describe your ideal vacation. Tropical island, drinks, hot hot hot, relaxing, party at night, amazing food.

Allie's Questions
1. If you had to eat one thing for breakfast for the rest of your life, what would it be? Mom's strata. Eggs, bacon and bread. Mmmmm

2. What is one chore you despise doing? Dishes. I hate the way they look, smell, feel...ew.

3. Are there any books you can pick up and reread over and over again? Yep, a bunch. I've read The Outsiders atleast five times!

4. Who would play you in the movie of your life? Sophia Bush. Sometimes I think we kinda look alike.

5. If you had to rename your blog for any reason, what would it be? I've thought about this before, I can't even think of anything good!

6. What is your favorite outfit to wear? Skinny jeans and boots. And, of course, a cute shirt.

7. If I gave you $100 what completely non-practical thing would you spend it on? It's pretty sad when you can't think of things you WANT to buy. I'm going to cheat - I'd save it.

8. What is your favorite childhood memory? Disney with my family for the first time.

9. If you could be an instant expert in any subject matter, what would you choose? Life. I'd have all the answers.

10. What is your favorite joke? I don't think I have one!!

11. Where in the World is Carmen San Diego? Wouldn't you like to know...

Tag, You're It:

Bonnie @ Makin' Plans

Jordyn @ Jordynluise Blog

Jacque @ Life Along the Way

Jennifer @ Colwells in Carolina

My Questions For You!

1. What's your best accomplishment in life up until this point?

2. If you could live anywhere, where would it be?

3. Describe your perfect date night.

4. What do you think is your best feature?

5. What's your favorite picture of you an your hubby?

6. If you won a million dollars, what's the first thing you would do?

7. What's your favorite snack food?

8. What's your favorite meal of the day?

9. Favorite guilty pleasure TV show?

10. Best book you have ever read?

11. Describe your perfect Sunday.

Winter Wonderland Wedding

2012-01-23T09:04:00.000-05:00

I love weddings. I love getting dressed up, the gorgeous bride, the handsome groom, the food, the music...the love. I love everything about weddings. And I even love traveling home for 48 hours (I once did 24!) to celebrate a wedding!

This weekend me and Dad spent the weekend in the Berkshires. Danny wasn't able to make it to the wedding, so I brought the next best person...my Dad!

The wedding weekend started with rehearsal and dinner. It was such a perfect, laid back dinner - pizza and beer. My Dad mingled, I chatted with the girls, and made some new friends. When the night was over, and lots of beer glasses were empty....we went back to the room. This hotel was super fancy - they turned down your blankets and leave chocolate chip cookies on your pillows. This might be the reason Veronica chose to get married here!

Saturday morning the bride and her maids were up early for hair appointments. And to everyone's surprise and the brides delight - it snowed overnight! Perfect for a winter wedding in the mountains!

By 10:00 the girls were dressed in our silver and aubergine. The brides mom was in aubergine with a silver flower, and the grooms mom was in silver with a aubergine flower. We all matched perfectly. It was gorgeous. And when Veronica put on her dress...she was the most beautiful bride.

At 10:30 the bride was walking down the aisle to her handsome groom. They exchanged beautiful vows, the bride even threw in a "heck ya!"

The reception had lots of dancing, good food (brunch!) and fantastic people. I can not wait to see the professional pictures...Veronica and Pete are a beautiful couple. And, if I do say so myself, the wedding party was pretty good lookin' too!

Congratulations Veronica and Pete! I love you both!

Who You Callin' Sloppy?

2012-01-22T07:28:00.000-05:00

We were on a Sloppy Joe kick for a while,

so we had a bunch of Manwich laying around.

So when I came across this casserole recipe, I knew I had to try it!

It's a different twist on the old classic!

Just add mashed potatoes and you are good to go!

The Pinterest Version:

My Version:

It wasn't as good as I wanted it to be.

Never mess with a classic!

Family Fun Fridays! January 20 - 22

2012-01-20T06:05:00.000-05:00

I might be going out of town this weekend - but there are some great things going on in the Jacksonville area! Get out and have some fun!

Friday, January 20
5:00 @ White Oaks in Swansboro - Hemmingway, His Way Dinner Theater. $50/person
6:00 @ New Bern Fireman's Museum - BBQ in Blue Jeans. Food, drinks and dancing! $30/person

Saturday, January 21
9:00 - 10:00 @ TT Community Center - Free Family Fun Run!
10:00 - 4:00 @ Fort Fisher - 147th Anniversary of the Battle of Fort Fisher FREE
1:00 - 4:00 @ Mother Earth Brewery in Kinston - FREE tours of the brewery!
4:00 - midnight @ Crown Coliseum in Fayetteville - Jason Aldean and Luke Bryan Concert $35 with New River SMP includes concert and transportation (call 449-5145 for more information)

Sunday, January 20
11:00 - 4:00 @ Fort Fisher - 147th Anniversary of the Battle of Fort Fisher FREE
3:00 @ Pied Piper Theater in Wilmington - Aladdin! $10

Plan Ahead!
February 3-5 Wilmington Wine and Chocolate Festival. Wine and chocolate tastings, raffles and more! $12 (advance) $15 (at door)

Every day except Sunday - Free tours and tasting at Duplin Winery
Also, visit Huffman Vineyards in Richlands Wednesday - Saturdays 9 - 5

Thursday Five

2012-01-19T00:01:00.006-05:00

Happy Thursday!

Make your list, grab the button, and link up!

Happy

Giddy

Grateful

Joyful

Gleeful

Miley has been so well behaved lately. She's been going on 3-mile runs with Danny, which wears her out! Makes me happy to have such a good puppy!

Danny's on his extreme diet and I'm PMSing. We've been pretty cranky...but I was so giddy to have a peanut butter milkshake from Cookout last night!

I am so grateful for amazing friends. I was stressing all week about leaving Miley in the cage...until Jacque came to the rescue. She is a great friend!

Even though Monday was a holiday, Hubby had duty. I was joyful when I found out Kim's husband had duty too! We took full advantage of this - black bean hummus, brownie sundaes, girl talk and a movie.

I was gleeful to have a lazy Tuesday with Hubby. We watched a whole bunch of movies and cuddled on the couch. Love days like that!

Worlds Simplest Chicken Pot Pie

2012-01-17T07:14:00.000-05:00

Do you ever need a super quick and easy meal?

I'm talking under a half hour....

and only four ingredients.

It doesn't get easier than this!

Simple Chicken Pot Pie

1 can Progresso chicken pot pie soup

1 box Perdue Short Cuts

1 bag mixed veggies

1 can Pillsbury breadsticks

1) Preheat oven to 375 degrees.

2) Combine soup, chicken and veggies in a saucepan over medium heat. Heat through.

3) Pour into a casserole dish. Cover with breadsticks and cook for 18 minutes.

Simple. Simple. Simple.

And so pretty.

Oh, and yummy!

Recipe from Pillsbury.com

The Weekend I Saw a UFO

2012-01-16T08:23:00.002-05:00

This weekend was great. I was able to relax, have time to myself, and still spend time with the Hubby and friends. Told you it was great!

Friday night me and Danny had our weekly date night. Hubby's on a diet, so I knew he needed to eat something low-cal. I checked out a few menus and saw that Ruby Tuesday has a a Fit and Trim menu. He had the under 400 calorie BBQ chicken, zucchini and summer squash. I chose something from the Fat and Chunky menu (my loving name for it!) - lobster mac and cheese. Holy portion control. It was such a small portion...made me wish I had Danny's delicious looking meal!

After dinner I swear I saw a UFO. There was a big bright light in the sky - not a plane, not a star. We tried driving towards it, by the time we got there it was gone....and there were atleast five people outside looking up. Creepy! So, of course I took advantage of this situation!

Saturday morning after I sold the fence, Danny and Miley went for a 3 mile jog...and I was able to have some alone time! Then I headed to a cooking class on base with Jennifer, Jordyn (a new bloggy love!) and Megan. It was more of a cooking demonstration with Chef Terry, but it was still a good time. He made orange chicken stir fry with quinoa. We brought home a bunch of yummy recipes that I can't wait to try out!

Later that night me and Danny were headed to the gym - just to find out it closes at 5. Jeez! What a buzz kill. So, instead we drove to our house. The fence is up and the sign out front says "under contract." That sign was so great to see. I can not wait for it to officially be ours!

Sunday morning was freezing. We spent the morning cuddled up watching our favorite show - Mysteries at the Museum. And I was able to have more alone time when Danny and Miley went for another jog! We went to a few flea markets, I was totally willing to spend money...but we couldn't find anything!

While everyone else is enjoying a three day weekend, Hubby has duty which leaves me and Miley having a (long) boring day. I should be doing laundry or even packing...but I think instead it's going to be a lazy movie and junk food day!

Oh wait...someone in this house is on a diet - we only have healthy food. Ordering pizza it is!

Goulash!

2012-01-15T07:05:00.000-05:00

Last week I found a great deal on pork tenderloin. I bought it, but I had no idea what I wanted to do with it. So, I looked it up on Pinterest! I found a whole post on healthy pork tenderloin recipes. One really stuck out to me: Hungarian Goulash!

The Pinterest Version:

My Version:

This meal takes patience, time and a lot of love. And the taste was to die for. I will be making this one again!

Hubby's on a Diet

2012-01-14T07:08:00.000-05:00

I don't think Hubby reads my blog anymore, so it's probably safe to share this story!

December was a great month for eating....not so much for the waistline. I know I've gained a little bit of weight and Danny said he's gained weight. But we thought nothing of it.

Until Danny got a promotion. And had to go to Corporals Course. He had to wear his Alphas...and um, they were snug. Nothing that a trusty needle and thread couldn't fix though.

Monday and Tuesday were fine. And then Wednesday, I got the text. Hubby got kicked out of the class for being overweight.

Now, I know this is no joking matter. But the next text I got seriously made me crack up!

I'm not even going to say how long (or should I say short) he has to lose it. But just know - we're officially in operation starvation mode.

Fun Fridays! January 13 - 16

2012-01-13T07:09:00.090-05:00

One of the most common phrases around Jacksonville is, "there's nothing to do!" I couldn't disagree more. Friday through Sunday my planner is full of activities. The hardest thing we have to do is decide which activity we want to do!

So, I'm starting this new series to help you out! Even if you aren't in the Jacksonville area, this might give you some ideas...or inspire you to come up with your own ideas. If you live near a base, be sure to check out your MCCS (or equivalent) website for lots of events and activities.

Friday, January 13
6:30 - 8:30 @ Harriet B. Smith Library - Free Family Movie Night - Mr. Popper's Penguins

Saturday, January 14
8:30AM @ Battleship North Carolina - $45 Hidden Battleship
12:00 - 2:00 @ Midway Park Community Center - Free cooking class
6:00 - 9:00 @ SywanykS - $10 Polish New Year and Dance. Includes homemade Polish food.
8:00 @ Thalian Hall in Wilmington - $25 The Full Monty

Sunday, January 15
8:00 @ Thalian Hall in Wilmington - $25 The Full Monty

Monday, January 16
11:00, 3:00, and 7:00 @ Base Theater - Free Jeff Dunham Controlled Chaos. Two shows, two tickets per ID on sale at 11AM
9:00 - 5:00 @ Pine Knoll Shores Aquarium - free today only!

Every day except Sunday - Free tours and tasting at Duplin Winery
Also, visit Huffman Vineyards in Richlands Wednesday - Saturdays 9 - 5

Plan Ahead!
January 27 @ Cherry Point Station Theater - FREE Mollie Gross show!

Please e-mail me if you have any questions. Please feel free to share any upcoming events that you know about!

Thursday Five

2012-01-12T00:01:00.004-05:00

It's back! And I've missed it!

If you don't know what Thursday Five is,

every week I give five words

and you say how those words were involved in your week!

Make your list, grab the button, and link up!

Blessed

Incredible

Productive

Elated

Happy

I'm blessed to have such a great husband. He works hard for us and makes sure that we have everything we need....and want.

December was a month full of junk food and no physical activity. My pants were starting to feel a little snug. This week we've been working out and eating healthy (we even had a salad!) We're on our way to looking and feeling incredible again!

Since a move is our (near) future, I'm trying to get rid of stuff that I know we won't be using at our house. I'm feeling productive (and just a little richer!)

Veronica's wedding is next weekend. And I'm elated to say that even though I pigged out in December....my dress still fits!

I'm very happy that today is payday. Not because we need the money...but because I'm a freak and actually enjoy budgeting!

Dear Miley,

2012-01-11T14:23:00.001-05:00

I'm sorry, but you have been driving me nuts lately. Our bad day together starts the minute you wake me up. You eat, you go outside...and I have to watch every single move to make sure you don't dig. Today you were good, you didn't. Then you get a treat, cuz I don't want stinky doggy breath.

Then the maddness begins. You have been awake for literally 10 minutes and you decide to start barking for no reason. You just stand there and bark. Want to play ball? Nope. Tug of war? No thanks. You just like the sound of your voice. I ignore you, you find shoes, towels, pull things off my table, socks from drawers that weren't closed all the way....and I have to chase you to get them, make a friggin' blockade in the kitchen to trap you. You're pleased with your bad behavior...so you decide to take a nap. Man, I wish I could take a nap.

Then you need to go out later. So, I decide we're going to go out together. You look RIGHT at me and start digging. OR the other day you see me vaccuuming and you start digging. REALLY?? You are not that bright. Then you bark at me for 10 more minutes. Just as you start putting your head down, Fedex comes, you freak out. Then the mailman, you freak out again. Just as you start to dose off....someone next door moves to fast and you start barking like a mad woman.

You're being "good" now, but you're going to be a pain after dinner and then when Daddy gets home you're going to freak out. No matter how many times you are shoved down, you still jump. Ignoring you doesn't work. And following Cesar Milan's ways just make me look stupid.

I'm sick of saying your name. I'm sick of having to put everything up so you don't destroy it. You need to freakin' behave. Everyone said you would calm down when you turned 2 years old...well, now I'm counting down the days til you are 3, because 2 didn't make a damn difference.

Miley, you're a pain in my ass. You're lucky I love you.

Love,

A Fed Up Puppy Mommy

PS. I just thought of this. Do you have seasonal depression? You were so well behaved over the summer!

Top 10: Things to do in Boston

2012-01-10T09:27:00.001-05:00

One of the most fun things I did in 2011 was being a tourist in my home state. I went home for 3 months while Danny was in Yuma....and my good friend Betty (Mrs. Gambizzle to all of you!) tagged along! These are the Top 10 things I recommend every tourist do while they are in Boston!

1. Drink a Scorpion Bowl at Hong Kong

Now, I'm sure you're asking yourself "what the heck is a scorpion bowl?" All you need to know is it's a bowl full of deliciousness! They are served at Chinese restaurants...and this hole in the wall bar near Faneuil Hall. Share a huge bowl with your friends and laugh your butts off at people singing karaoke. It's a great way to start a night out!

2. See a Cover Band

Boston has a great music scene. And there is something for everyone! My favorite cover band is Spike the Punch. They sing oldies, new songs...and they make sure everyone has fun. Wear comfy shoes because you will be dancing! And, if you can, see them at Hennessys...my favorite bar in the city!

3. Visit the USS Constitution

This is the first stop on the Freedom Trail (which I also recommend you should do!) You can visit the museum and tour the ship for free. There is so much to see and so much to learn in this small museum. When you leave the museum, look across the street. That's the first Marine barracks! If you're lucky (like we were!) you will be able to tour it!

4. Eat a Canoli at Mike's Pastry

This is something you just have to do when visiting Boston. Mike's Pastry is in the North End and usually very crowded. Make sure you know what you want (which is a canoli!) when you walk in, there's always a crowd and everyone is always in a rush (welcome to Boston!) This is a great pit stop when you are walking on the Freedom Trail. You'll thank me later.

5. Drink a Sam at the Sam Adams Brewery

So, it's hard to get here. Ride the orange line (sketchy!) to pretty much the end. And then walk through a super sketchy neighborhood...and then you are in heaven! Free beer tour, free beer tasting, and if you're extra adventurous you can walk a few more miles to the first bar Sam was served at....just to get a free glass. Take my word for it, worth it!

6. Walk Yawkey Way

Or, even better, see a Red Sox game! If there are no games, tour Fenway Park. I've done both, but this time...it was down pouring and the park was closed. So, we walked the perimeter looking at all the history, going in shops, oh...and drinking beer at Game On!

7. Walk the Freedom Trail

The Freedom Trail is a 2.5 mile walking tour of history. You follow the red line around town and take in all the sites. Along the way you see the Old North Church, North End, Dog Tag Garden, Faneuil Hall, Downtown Crossing...and SO much more. Wear comfy shoes! I didn't...and regretted it later that night.

8. Comedy Connection

The comedy club used to be tiny. The first time I saw Dane Cook I could reach out and touch him. Now, it's housed in a much bigger place. Big names, local people, they are all funny. I've only been to the big theater once and it was to see Wayne Brady. Absolutely hilarious! If he's on tour in your area I highly recommend seeing him!

9. Fire and Ice

One of my favorite restaurants in Boston. The downfall - expensive. But it's all you can eat, so it makes up for it! It's a bigger and better version of a Mongolian Grill. Think - giant stir fry! And they do a breakfast buffet, the pancakes are the size of your plate!

10. Museums

There are a ton of awesome museums in Boston. Me and Betty skipped these but we should have gone to the aquarium and the Museum of Science. They are mostly geared towards kids, but if you have never been before you can get lost for hours!

(Can you tell I'm feeling nostalgic? That only means one thing...I'm ready for a trip home!)

Planning for a Home!

2012-01-08T13:16:00.001-05:00

We did it! We made an offer on a house, and it was accepted!

We are just waiting for a few more things to fall into place and hopefully ~~soon~~ it will be ours. I'm refusing to get too excited, just in case. And I don't want it to happen too soon because our lease doesn't end until March 31.

Even though I'm trying to keep my excitement level to a minimum....I'm still mentally decorating it!

First! The living room!

I'm pretty excited about this kitty cornered fire place! I'm not sure if I want the TV on top, because I have so many decorating ideas swimming through my mind. Also, I still really love our entertainment stand, I refuse to part with it.

I know I want a gallery wall. Something like this!

Next! Kitchen and dining room!

I'm very excited about how wide open these rooms are. Right now, our living room and kitchen are separated and boxy...I really love the way this house is set up! Our cabinets are darker than the picture, and our table is much lighter. I plan to have some fun with sandpaper and paint! Oh, and I'm loving the bar area. On my wish list: bar stools!

I will be doing this to the cabinets under the sink. I always hate how messy it gets under there!

You know what else I'm loving about this house? The huge fenced in backyard, the walk in closet, two bathrooms, Kaleb's own room, two car garage and a covered porch! Also on the wish list: rocking chairs.

Oh, I lied.
I'm SO excited!

Just Add Cheese

2012-01-08T07:43:00.000-05:00

I'm a firm believer that everything is better with cheese. And sometimes five cheeses are called for! Like with this Philly cheesesteak calzone. Really, it was delicious!

The Pinterest Version:

My Version:

For the record, the cheesy-ness is thanks to Kraft Italian five cheese with a hint of cream cheese. Um, yum!

Dear Blog...

2012-01-07T16:37:00.000-05:00

I'm sorry I have neglected you!

As you know, the computer broke on Thanksgiving...thanks to a super nasty virus. I tried to fix it, but well, my degree in History doesn't really help in that department. Since then we have been computer free. I blogged from my phone, which resulted in ugly formats and poor blogging. Oh, and to do my 2011 review it took TWO days from the iPhone! Needless to say, blogging has been very frustrating!

The plan was to only use the USO computers. That's where I spent an hour this morning....uploading 30 pictures. Holy smokes that is slow. And, since you know me so well, I am not patient!! I enlisted the help of my uber smart cousin and he helped me and the Hubby pick out a new computer.

I swore up and down we weren't going to buy a computer right away. But I couldn't pass up this deal! So, we are owners of a new laptop. And this time....we will not murder it!

So, dear blog...and blog readers...I'm back! I've missed my religious blogging and reading all of your blogs! I'll be commenting again and, of course, finding new bloggy loves!

To celebrate my return to blogging here are some pictures on events you have missed out on!

Me and Lindsey celebrated Beermas with NC Girls Pint Out!

Kaleb was here for Christmas!

My parents visited us!

Love,
Nicole

Surprise! Happy New Year!

2012-01-02T11:15:00.000-05:00

I woke up to the most fabulous surprise on New Years Eve! My Dad called and asked if the mailman delivered a package. I went to the front door to check...and there were Mom and Dad! I was SO surprised, everyone was totally in on it and I had NO idea!

We celebrated the New Year with my family (and wishing my sister could have been there) and new friends. We went to Mike's Farm for a Christmas light display, which wad fabulous! And had a yummy dinner at Marrakesh.

Last year I made 11 Goals for 2011. I failed some and accomplished others (like driving, sleeping more and taking vitamins.)

This year I'm attempting 12 Goals for 2012. That's one goal for every month!

1. Buy a house
2. Get my license
3. Have one month of no eating out
4. Make more time for family
5. Get a job
6. Increase our savings account
7. Keep the house clean, not just acceptable!
8. Try something new
9. Bring Miley for more walks
10. Go to the gym
11. Plant a SUCCESSFUL garden!
12. Go to DC with my Hubby

2011 in Review

2012-01-01T23:00:00.000-05:00

Is it just me or did 2011 fly by? Lucky for me it was a great year! Here are some of my favorite highlights...

January
We rang in the New Year at Duplin Winery.
I was in Katie and Frank's wedding!

February
We went to Disney for our honeymoon!
& I met Bonnie and her gorgeous children!
I had my wisdom teeth YANKED out!

March
I celebrated Mardi Gras with the girls!
We celebrated our 1 year anniversary with fondue!
Danny went to Yuma, me and Miley went to Boston...and Mrs. Gambizzle visited!

April
Me and Mrs. G were Boston tourists.
Jacksonville was hit by a tornado.
I had a tea party with my Roomie to celebrate the Royal Wedding!

May
I celebrated Cinco de Mayo.
And reunited with my Hubby!
We went to an airshow, a comedy show and had a cookout!

June
We went on a river cruise.
Kaleb visited! He got a new bike, went to 2 baseball games, went crabbing, fishing, attempted geocaching and learned how to swim!

July
We started a tradition: Maine with the family!
Had our family pictures taken.
When we were kid free we hangout in Virgina Beach with the Gambizzles...
And survived our second BeerFest with the Colwells!

August
We bought a new (to us!) car.
...and I started driving!
I cut my hair off.
Michelle, Katie and Irene visited us.

September
We celebrated Danny's 29th in Asheville!
We started a new adventure involving NC wine.
Danny went to golf weekend and I surprised Veronica at her bridal shower!
AND I went to the spa with the girls and the fair with my college roommates!

October
For the first time ever, the FRO hosted an event I was interested in!
We ate lots of chili a the ChiliFest!
And we celebrated Halloween with the Colwells!

November
We went to our 2nd USMC ball.
I discovered I can make my own Starbucks.
And Miley turned two!

December
Lindsey visited and we went to Beermas!
I turned the big 2-6!
I went to the winery and a cookie swap.
And Kaleb came down for Christmas vacation!

Pizza Pizza Casserole!

2011-12-30T08:21:00.000-05:00

I didn't post my weekly Pinterest post...better late than never, right?

Last night for dinner we had the pizza casserole that everyone seems to have pinned.

Cheese, pasta, sauce...pepperoni. Um, yes please!

And was it as good as it looks? YES! Thank goodness there are a tons of leftovers, now we don't have to fight over it for lunch!

The Pinterest Version:

My Version:

11 in '11

2011-12-29T08:21:00.001-05:00

I'm stealing this idea from Jennifer and linking up with Hadar and Kristen for their 11 in '11 linky party!

11: Favorite Movie You Watched

Crazy Stupid Love. The movie was decent and when everything came together in the end it was HILARIOUS! Me, Danny and Lindsey instantly granted it "best movie ever" status!

10: Favorite TV Series

Me and Danny were a little late to this party, but we LOVE The Office. We watched the entire series on Netflix in just a few weeks...I already can't wait for the latest season to be available on there!

9: Favorite Restaurant

After two years of living down here I finally found a place that I love - The Marina Cafe. Their regular menu isn't too impressive but over the summer they host a pig roast every weekend. And the atmosphere is FABULOUS! Very relaxed and comfortable. I already can't wait for summer date nights there!

8: Favorite New Thing You Tried

Zip Lining! We went to Asheville for Danny's birthday and I surprised him with a day of zip lining. For being afraid of heights I REALLY enjoyed doing this!

7: Favorite Gift You Got

Danny TOTALLY surprised me this Christmas. I've been saying forever that I wanted a hanging pot rack, but I never imagined that Danny would remember that...and get one for me! I was so surprised, and can not wait to hang it up!

6: Favorite Thing You Pinned

I've pinned a lot, but have only completed meals and outfits. But my FAVORITE is probably all the outfits that involved my mustard cardigan!

5: Favorite Blog Post

I blog A LOT. But the first post that came to mind was the post I did on ball gowns....and what is NOT appropriate!

4: Best Accomplishment

This might not seem like much to any other 26 year old...but I FINALLY got my permit and have been driving. I'm no longer (deathly) afraid of it. Note: I still don't love it!

3: Favorite Picture

Me, Danny, Kaleb and Michelle in Maine.

2: Favorite Memory

DISNEY! We spent a magical week in Disney, going on rides and eating the most delicious food. I already want to go back!

Or! Maine with the family. I hope to make this an annual trip with all of us!

1: Goal for 2012

Get my license, buy a house, and take better care of my family.

A New Adventure!

2011-12-28T08:33:00.000-05:00

Now that Christmas is over we need to start thinking about the next year. And we have a BIG adventure to start thinking about: BUYING A HOUSE!

Yesterday was our first day house hunting. We brought Kaleb along with us...which could have been a really bad idea or a great idea. Turns out it was a great idea...I think we have a budding real estate agent on our hands!

We are looking for a three bedroom, two bath house...with an amazing kitchen. We are pretty secure with our price limit, which I (thought I) made clear to our agent.

The first house we looked at was custom built for a client who ended up not being able to buy it. There were tons of PROS for this house...but also a few CONS. The pros for this house was the AMAZING kitchen with bar and built in desk. The main bedroom has a huge walk in closet and bathroom. It's on 1.5 acres. The cons are...it's in Hubert, which is pretty far from base, it's located on a main road, which I'm not a fan of, the living room is small and had no true mantle on top of the fire place...the TV would HAVE to go there. Oh, and it was about $20,000 out of our price range. Way to get my hopes up!

Before we visited the next house Danny made it clear that we wanted something in our budget. So when we pulled up to the next house I was pretty excited. It's in Richlands, closer to base, loved the kitchen, screened in porch, fenced in backyard and FABULOUS bonus room upstairs with built in bookshelves. Turns out it was $29,000 out of our budget. If money was no object THIS is the house I would want!

She then showed us one under our budget that we didn't like at all and then another version of my dream house. I was starting to think I would have to redo our budget...

The last house we looked at (also in Richlands) was right at our budget. The kitchen is a little smaller than I would like, but has a great bar. The living room has a gorgeous kitty-cornered fireplace, bedroom has a great walk in closet, and 2 car garage (and I love the door!) I left thinking that THIS was going to be our home!

We are waiting to hear back from our credit repair person (again.) I'm not going to get too excited about this house until I know there is a real chance of us getting it. I'd hate to be disappointed!

Christmas!

2011-12-27T19:55:00.001-05:00

I hope everyone had a very Merry Christmas! This was our first Christmas playing Santa and we were VERY excited! And maybe just a tad bit nervous that Santa was going to be caught!

We woke up to tons of presents under the tree! And Kaleb's stocking was almost as tall as him! He got so many toys and clothes...and a pair of rollerblades from Miley!

Me and Danny also had a great Christmas! I was spoiled with a couple Pandora charms, clothes, a weather station and a hanging rack for my pots! Danny got new running sneakers, sun glasses, clothes and tools!

After a yummy homemade breakfast we FaceTimed with my family, which was awesome! Then we made our way to Raleigh with the in-laws...for even more presents! I'm pretty sure I have the entire Pampered Chef collection and Danny has a new gun cabinet.

Dinner was yummy...and there was lots of it! It was a very relaxing and fun day with the in-laws! Miley even had fun with their new puppy, Kayla!

This was my first Christmas away from home. It was different and will take some getting used to...next year we will definitely be going to Boston! I know it was different for my family too...instead of a big dinner they had CHINESE FOOD!

I'm very thankful that we were able to spend Christmas with Kaleb...and I hope it's the first of many holidays with him!

I wish I had more pictures to share...but without a computer it's impossible! So, here's a picture of the three of us...in matching plaid!

It's Beginning to Look a Lot Like Christmas!

2011-12-20T07:52:00.003-05:00

Minus the snow! Which I would never complain about. One thing I DO NOT miss about New England is the snow! BUT it has been chilly out. Last week it was still in the 70's...and it was 28 degrees when I woke up yesterday! BRR!

Thankfully we don't need snow for it to be Christmas. Our house is decorated for the big day...and it's getting me REALLY excited!

We have presents under the tree (and Santa hasn't even visited yet!) the stockings are hung, and our Christmas card collection grows everyday!

And I'm sure you're wondering what our Christmas cards looks like! I love the way they came out!

Debbie and Nancy

2011-12-19T09:00:00.001-05:00

Around the holidays I don't like when Debbie and Nancy show up. Debbie and Nancy live in all of us. You also know them as Debbie Downer and Negative Nancy. They have been showing up more and more often around these neck of the woods.

Let's talk about Debbie first. She's a worrier and a nervous person. If she's not worrying about one thing, it's another..and if there's nothing to worry about..she'll find something. Once the wheels get spinning, problems that didn't exist a minute ago are now HUGE life changing issues.

Nancy is a complainer and always has something negative to say. She hates her apartment, her annoying neighbors, when her dog barks for no reason, and boring weekends. And she makes sure you know about it.

Like most toxic friends, I need to get rid of these two people. They are depressing and I don't like being around them.

It'll be hard, but I need to start focusing on the positive. I need to stop complaining. I know problems aren't just going to disappear, but I also know complaining about them won't make the problem go away faster. I need to focus on the here and now...and not (so much!) on what I can't control.

2012 is right around the corner...here's to making it a much more positive year!

Cilantro Lime Chicken

2011-12-19T08:41:00.001-05:00

Every time I use a new recipe, I have a new favorite food! And lately, all my favorites have come from Pinterest. This weeks favorite? Cilantro lime chicken....and the yummy yummy salsa I had with it!

The first picture is the Pinterest version, the second is mine!

Christmas Blog Swap

2011-12-14T07:40:00.005-05:00

Today's the day! A bunch of bloggers have gotten together to discuss holidays, traditions, and family. Be sure to check out all of the other great posts!

You can find my guest post over at To the Nth.

Now onto my great guest blogger! Uncorked and Unwined is a new mom, Air Force Wife, world traveler living in Europe....and a lover of coffee and wine!

Hi!

I’m so excited to be participating in Wife on the Roller Coaster’s blog swap!

The holidays should be a joyous occasion, spent with family and friends, with lots of love and laughter. Sometimes though, things get in the way. Our holidays turn out a bit different than we’d expected or hoped. This is often the case when the military is involved.

My husband and I were lucky to spend the holiday season with each other for the first three years we were together. Then, in the fall of 2009, he deployed for the third time. We got lucky! It was only scheduled be a 60-day deployment and he was slotted to be home more than a week before Christmas. Rarely do things go as planned though and Mr. Murphy always seems to strike at the worst times.

My heart was heavy that year as I put out the Christmas decorations and set up the tree alone. The holiday season just wasn’t as cheerful with my husband in a war zone, so far away from home. The day after he was scheduled to start his journey home, I received a phone call. Due to poor planning, the plane that would bring them back to America wouldn’t be available for several more days. They were out of the war zone, in a “safer” county, but their return date was now uncertain. We had almost two weeks to work with, so I wasn’t too worried. He would still make it home for Christmas right?

Each day came and with it, another phone call, another delay. My hopes began to drop and my heart grew heavier with each passing day that brought us closer to a Christmas spent apart. Then, two days before Christmas, I got the call that they were on their way! He would arrive on Christmas morning. I had spent the days leading up to Christmas at my parent’s house, an hour and a half away from our home and from the base. I drove home on Christmas Eve and spent the night alone, praying that they would make it home safely tomorrow. All I wanted for Christmas was my husband.

I woke up bright and early Christmas morning to severe flooding and torrential rain. Even this couldn’t keep me down. I drove to the base and waited with the other friends and families. Several of our friends came out to support us, showing me that even on Christmas day, love and friendship matter the most. Due to the flooding, they were later than expected, but he made it. He walked through the door around 10am and I couldn’t have been happier. I had received my Christmas wish. We spent the rest of the weekend with family and friends, enjoying each other’s company. What was supposed to be a 60-day deployment turned into 74 days. I know it could have been much worse and I was, and still am, extremely thankful that we were able to spend Christmas day together.

This year and last, the military has again changed how we have spent the holiday season. My husband was TDY for two weeks over Thanksgiving last year. While he was swimming with whale sharks in 85-degree weather, I was sharing a meal with friends while it snowed outside.

While we are so happy to be living in Europe, Christmas is now spent away from family and friends back home. The holiday season is quite different when experienced outside of the United States. I am very blessed to have him here this year and I’ve already received my Christmas wish. My husband will be here with me, we have a beautiful, healthy child and we are all together. That’s all that really matters.

I hope each and every one of you finds joy, love and laughter this holiday season. For those of you who will be spending it away from family and friends, I hope you find some way to connect to those you love.

Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays!

Cookie Swap Fun!

2011-12-12T07:01:00.001-05:00

You already have my recipe for the cookie swap, but I bet you're dying to see what everyone else brought!

They were all so yummy! We had Laura Bush's cowboy cookies, chocolate chip, some sort of amazing graham cracker toffee and so many more! And Hubby was so happy with all the snacks in the house!

I had so much fun getting together with a bunch of girls for the night! And totally amazed that I've been able to have a girls night three times in a week! I could get used to this!

And a Layer of Cheese

2011-12-11T07:56:00.001-05:00

Have you noticed a trend? Most of my recipes have tons of cheese! It's a good thing I'm not lactose intolerant! And I'm honestly amazed I don't weigh way more than I do!

Last weekend we ate out so much, so Sunday I was itching to get back into the kitchen! And this is what I made!

Pinterest Version:

My Version:

....mmm....yum!

Cookie Swap Recipe

2011-12-10T10:56:00.001-05:00

I've never been invited to a cookie swap, so when I recieved an invite from Jen I said "yes" right away! The thought of making one type of cookie and bringing home many tupes seemed so exciting to me! Don't get me wrong, I love baking....but I'm such a slob! One mess is better than seven!

I decided to make my Mom's scones, which aren't really scones afterall! They are rugelach. And they are AMAZING!

Ingredients

2 cups all-purpose flour
1/4 teaspoon salt
1 cup unsalted butter
1 (8 ounce) package cream cheese
1/3 cup sour cream
1/2 cup white sugar
1 tablespoon ground cinnamon
1 cup finely chopped walnuts

Directions

1.Cut cold butter or margarine and cream cheese into bits. In food processor pulse flour, salt, butter or margarine, cream cheese and sour cream until crumbly.

2.Shape crumbly mixture into four equal disks. Wrap each disk and chill 2 hours or up to 2 days.

3.Roll each disk into a 9-inch round, keeping other disks chilled until ready to roll them.

4.Combine sugar, cinnamon, chopped walnuts.

5.Roll each disk into a 9 inch round keeping other disks chilled until ready to roll them. Sprinkle round with sugar/nut mixture. Press lightly into dough. With chefs knife or pizza cutter, cut each round into 12 wedges. Roll wedges from wide to narrow, you will end up with point on outside of cookie. Place on ungreased baking sheets and chill 20 minutes before baking. (I line cookie sheet with parchment paper for easier clean up).

6.Preheat oven to 350 degrees.

7.After scones are chilled, bake them in the center rack of your oven 22 minutes until lightly golden. Cool on wire racks. Store in airtight containers...they freeze very well.

ENJOY!

Girls Night at Duplin Winery

2011-12-08T08:28:00.001-05:00

Being a member at your favorite local winery has it's perks - huge discounts, special invitations, and girls night! We went to one over the summer, so when I got the invite for another one....we jumped at the chance!

We were greeted with huge gift bags and the usual friendly faces that you always see at Duplin. They had some light snacks including delicious pastries, cheese and cucumbers with dip. Oh, and wine! I drank "Just Naughty," Duplin's newest Christmas wine. Did I mention this was all free of charge!?

Birthday Weekend!

2011-12-05T12:45:00.001-05:00

I turned 26 on Thursday. And the day was even better because Hubby was promoted and my friend Lindsey came down for a long weekend! And we made sure we celebrated ALL weekend! (My waistline is showing the side effects!)

Lindsey arrived Thursday. We celebrated with lots of girl talk, lunch...and later drinks with Danny.

The fun REALLY started on Friday. The morning started with delicious cappuccinos....and ended with North Carolina Girls Pint Out's BEERmas. This event was held in Durham...scary, scary Durham! Luckily the bar was fun and full of amazing girls. We drank sweet potato beer and won a few raffles! It was so much fun to have a night out!

On our way home Saturday we witnessed a pretty awful motorcycle accident. Luckily the guy lived and hopefully learned his lesson to not drove like a jackass. We relaxed all day Saturday and then went to a local bar with Jen and Dustin. It was a fun, and interesting, night out. I sipped on water while everyone else drank very watered down drinks.

Lindsey and I spent our Sunday watching OWN's marathon about fat people. When it was over we enjoyed Cookout milkshakes. By the end of this weekend we could probably start our own fat show!

This morning I saw Lindsey off and enjoyed some Starbucks with Jacque. I had such a great birthday weekend and am so happy I got to share it with my amazing husband and a great friend!

On a side note - I'm hoping to get to get to the USO to use the computers and do a REAL blog update! Until then, here are some pictures to hold you over!

Hot Potato, Hot Potato!

2011-12-04T08:52:00.001-05:00

I haven't blogged in almost a week...having no computer will do that to ya! But you know what I have been doing? Using the Pinterest app to find and make delicious food!

One of the most simple and delicious meals I've made is potato soup in a crockpot. I usually don't use my crockpot....but this meal sounded too good to be true!

The second picture is the Pinterest picture, the first is my version. Deeeee-licious!

Fun Filled Weekend!

2011-11-28T08:26:00.002-05:00

This weekend was the kind of weekend I like...long and busy! Danny got out early on Wednesday and didn't have to be back until this morning. Don't you wish all weekends were that long!?

After Thanksgiving we started our fun! Friday I cleaned the house and got rid of all memories of autumn...and decorated for Christmas! I'm usually not so excited for Christmas, but it's going to be a lot of fun to have Kaleb here this year! AND I did all my wrapping!

Friday night we went to Swansboro for the Christmas Flotilla, which is basically a parade in the water. I had such a hard time taking pictures of the bright lights, but it was so gorgeous! It was the perfect night, complete with a beautiful sunset.

Saturday we drove to Burgaw for our 10th winery - Bannerman Vineyard. I was so excited to try new wine...but I was so let down. I couldn't find one wine that I enjoyed, Danny got lucky and liked a few. The strangest? Ginger wine. The best part of the trip was finding a hidden antique store and going through a bunch of treasures!

On the way home we decided to get out Christmas tree! The earliest I have EVER got one. It looks awesome all decorated and with presents already under it!

Sunday was, of course, a lazy day. Hubby watched football and played video games all day. As much as I hate those two things, Sunday's really are perfect around here!

And in case you were wondering! I've been driving A LOT lately! Be proud!

It drives me crazy that I can't put the photos where they belong in the post, there's only so much I can do with my iPhone!

I Love a Good Dog!

2011-11-27T07:35:00.000-05:00

As in hot dogs! And even more specifically....chili cheese dogs. What's better than a hot dog, smothered in chili and topped with delicious melted cheese? Oh, that's right....nothing!

This recipe was easy and super filling. We will definetly be making these yummy dogs again! I love that the condiments were already on when it came out of the oven....that way I could dig right in!

The Pinterest Version:

My Version:

Once again, I went a little overboard with the cheese! Mmmm yum!

Thanksgiving!

2011-11-25T07:49:00.002-05:00

I hope everyone had a fabulous Thanksgiving! This year, instead of traveling to Ohio, we decided to stay local. And since it was just the two of us I didn't want to make a HUGE meal. So what did we do?

We spent our Thanksgiving at the Jacksonville USO. I'll be honest, I was a little skeptical of the idea - would the food be good? Is it weird spending Thanksgiving at a place like this?

But I was proven wrong! The food was so good....and there was SO much of it! Turkey, stuffing, potatoes, yams, corn, cranberry sauce...and lots and lots of pumpkin pie. The only thing that would have made it better was wine! And, yes, I asked if I could bring some!

The only bad thing about going out for Thanksgiving dinner? No leftovers! So I cooked up some chicken and stuffing for a small snack later. Not as good, but it hit the spot!

I got to FaceTime with the family. Me and Danny were home drinking wine why my family was in Massachusetts drinking cocktails. It's kinda like we were together!

I really missed Mom's stuffing. Think UPS would mind bringing some to me?

I hope everyone had a great Thanksgiving! And if you're takin part in Black Friday...don't be too crazy and I hope you get a ton of great deals!

By the way - our computer died, so I'll be blogging from the handy Blogger app. It sticks the pictures at the end of the post, so until I figure out how to fix it...just pretend it is formatted perfectly!

Exciting EdenFantasys News!

2011-11-23T07:29:00.000-05:00

We all know and love EdenFantasys for their huge selection of sex toys, lingerie, and customer reviews. Well, I am very happy to announce that EdenFantasys is now offering something for everyone! Including skin care, body wash, shaving cream, and even makeup...including this great (and budget friendly!) eyeshadow pallette! Which would make a great stocking stuffer!

They have also expanded their clothing collection. Maybe you need some new clubwear....or maybe you are on the look for a flirty holiday outfit! Maybe you want to be a sexy snowman or Santa's helper, either way EdenFantasys has you covered (well....kinda!)

Don't forget to always check out the latest promos and reviews...and don't forget to add the free gift to your order! And for that special someone, do your Christmas shopping here....or maybe pick up a gift card! You can not lose by making a purchase from EdenFantasys!

And I'm sure you're wondering my favorite thing about EdenFantasys. Descreat shipping, free gifts, blogger friendly and great reviews! Even if sex toys are not for you, there is something for you on this site: from bachelorette party ideas, books, DVDs, and much much more!

Top 5 Tuesday: Thanksgiving

2011-11-22T08:06:00.000-05:00

For the first time I'm linking up with Just Peachy for her Top 5 Tuesday! This weeks topic: Thanksgiving!

My Top 5 Favorite things about Thanksgiving!

1. Food

You don't even need to make a turkey for me, I love sides. Stuffing is my favorite, Mom's stuffing is my favorite favorite. In my eyes, turkey is only good for one thing. Leftover sandwiches. Mmmmm

2. Thanksgiving Night Movie

Growing up we always went to a movie Thanksgiving night. Me and Danny have been able to continue that tradition with Kaleb. This year me and Danny will be going solo, but we'll still be going! Now we just need to decide on the movie!

3. Family

I've only missed one Thanksgiving with my family or Danny's family...and that's when I went to Ireland. I love getting to spend time with family, during a no-stress holiday. This will be our first Thanksgiving just us, thank goodness for FaceTime!

4. Macy's Thanksgiving Day Parade

I actually like watching the parade! It's more background noise than something I sit in front of, but it's always fun to see the giant floats, celebrities, and people along the route having fun.

5. Almost Christmas!

Yep, after Thanksgiving it's officially time to decorate for Christmas, watch holiday movies, listen to Christmas music....and finally have some Starbucks holiday drinks!

No Need for Starbucks!

2011-11-20T07:00:00.002-05:00

I love saving money. But I also love Starbucks. It's like a huge conflict of interest! Starbucks is so freaking expensive. I had a $15 Starbucks GC, and was only able to get 3 drinks! Talk about sad. So, when I ran across Salted Caramel Mocha recipe I just had to make it mine!

Okay, so I decided on a whim that I wanted to make this. Meaning, I had no sugar....or whipping cream. What's a girl to do?! Improvise! I attempted to caramelize some Splenda and skim milk. What a joke, it was so thin. But tasted exactly the same. It was freakin' delicious. It's bad that I know how to make it...I want it all the time now! Watch out waistline!!

The Pinterest Version:

My Version:

Get in my belly!

Bloggy Loves!

2011-11-18T16:30:00.000-05:00

Old friends pass away, new friends appear. It is just like the days. An old day passes, a new day arrives. The important thing is to make it meaningful: a meaningful friend or a meaningful day.

- Dalai Lama

When you look above this post and see the link for "My Friends Blog Too" it's more than just a list of blogs I like. Those are bloggers that I have met in real life. Yes, as of today, I have met sixteen bloggers.

On the list are people I have become really close to. And the military life comes with a lot of "see ya laters." I've had to give more "see ya later" hugs in the past two years than any other time in my (almost) 26 years.

This week I had my last lunch date with my bestie, Katie, before she leaves for Oklahoma. Katie was the first blogger I met, and my first friend in Jacksonville. I helped Katie movie into her house, "lived" with her for a while....and I was even in Katie's wedding! It's hard to believe that our friendship started with our blogs.

Today I met my sixteenth blogger, Kim from Our Navy Nest. We celebrated BOGO at Starbucks and bonded over all things New England. I don't have pictures to prove it...but that just means we need to hangout again!

I just want to thank each and every blogger I have met for being an amazing friend, a shoulder to lean on, and helping me make amazing memories.

Wine & Love

2011-11-17T08:35:00.000-05:00

I'm linking up with Walking With Nora again this week. Time to reflect on the good...and the bad...of the past week. Make your own list and join in the fun!

*WINE*

If you are leaving me a question in a comment make sure I can respond. Seeing no-reply blogger is very frustrating.

I lost one of my black boots. It's either in a Myrtle Beach hotel room or the parking garage. Makes me sad.

The hardest part of living away from home is missing birthdays. And this year we're also missing Thanksgiving and Christmas. UGH.

Last night while hanging up Danny's blues and my dress...the rod in the closet fell. What a freakin' mess.

I had to say "see ya later" to my bestie this week. Atleast now I have an excuse to visit Oklahoma!

*LOVES*

We bought Katie's fence. Bringing it in wasn't as epic as I thought it was going to be. It fits in the room perfectly. Now we just need a house!

Happy 22nd birthday to my sister, Michelle! Two weeks until my birthday!

I found shoes to make my dress for Veronica's wedding! I can't wait for the big day!

Buy One Get One at Starbucks today through Sunday. 'Nough said.

What Can I Say....I Plan Ahead

2011-11-16T09:20:00.000-05:00

I have this...

...but not this

And as of tonight we'll have this....

...but we don't have

Yep, as of tonight we'll have a fence in our spare bedroom. I couldn't pass up this great deal and since I know we'll be moving out of here soonish, I just had to get this fence. It's good thing we don't plan to have many visitors!

Don't worry, I'll document the moving in process!

What If....

2011-11-14T08:31:00.001-05:00

Danny hates when I start a sentence with "what if....?" And more often than not, that's how my sentences start. Hey, I'm a curious girl! So this little blog meme is perfect for me...and other curious bloggers!

What if I were to get pregnant?

I'd be excited...and nervous, and worried, and all the other emotions I generally feel. But more excited.

What if I could have any job in the universe?

You know Andrew Zimmerman and Adam Richman? Well, I'd love to get paid to travel and eat!

What if I had the day to myself?

With no dog? I'd wake up when I want to. Call Starbucks and have them deliver something to me (this is a dream world, right?!) I'd take a really long, hot shower. Watch a few tearjerkers on Lifetime. Make an incredible lunch and eat in the living room and not have to worry about the dog being curious. And then after enough relaxing I would get off my lazy butt and clean the spare bedroom....with no interruptions.

What if I could get married all over again?

I'd only change one thing - I'd make sure I got to enjoy cocktail hour. We had mimosas, bloody marys and an amazing cheese tray. I wish I got to eat it!! But it was an amazing day...I wouldn't change anything else!

What if I could live anywhere in the US?

This is a real life problem right now! We're stuck between North Carolina and Massachusetts. Perks and downfalls of both.

What if you could have any talent in the world?

One that would make me lots of money!

What if you met me in real life?

If you like my blog...I think you'd like me. I might be a little more outspoken in person.

What if I went back to school?

I have no clue what I would go for. Maybe a Masters in Education?

What if money weren't an object?

My life would be so different. No more envelope system or budgeting. But I don't know what I would buy. I really can't think of anything I want!

What if I could meet one celebrity?

I've met quite a few celebs. I've met Kenny Chesney, most of the One Tree Hill cast, lots of bands that most people don't know. It's not really that exciting. I never know what to say, everyone is awkward, I usually just get my picture or autograph and leave.

What if I could shop at one store for the rest of my life?

Probably Forever 21. But if money still isn't an object...Urban Outfitters.

What if I could choose any pet?

A dog that listens. Seriously, I love Miley. But her listening skills are declining.

What if I could go on a trip right now?
A cruise with my Hubby! Or Disney. Or the islands. Or back to Ireland. SO many choices!

What if I had to choose between a house cleaner and professional chef?

If it's just for a day....I'd choose the chef. One day of a professional chef would be amazing. But if it were forever...I'd choose the cleaner. Then I could cook and bake all I wanted and not have to clean up the mess!

What if I had the option to get plastic surgery?

I'd pass. There's nothing that I would want to change about myself.

Taco Bowls!

2011-11-13T07:52:00.002-05:00

So, you all know I like Jacksonville. But there are few things that I can not stand about good 'ol Jville. On the top of the list is that it doesn't have a Chipotle or Qdoba....or any place nearby. Seriously, I miss those giant delicious burritos. Mmm and that queso.

When I ran across the Taco Chicken Bowl pin, I knew I needed to make it. It reminds me of the naked burritos at Qdoba! I changed up the recipe a bit - I didn't use a slow cooker. I shredded a rotisserie chicken and just combined everything in a pot. Yes, I'm probably the only person on the planet that hates a slow cooker!

The Pinterest Version:

My Version:

And, mmm mmm mmm! It was yummy!

236th USMC Birthday Ball

2011-11-12T08:26:00.002-05:00

Thursday night we celebrated the United States Marine Corps' 236th birthday. We got all dressed up and celebrated with some amazing Marines.

Before we made the two hour trek to Myrtle Beach, we stopped at Mrs. P's house so I could get all dolled up. I always feel dressed up when my hair and makeup is done...and she did such a fabulous job!

We checked into our hotel room and got all dressed up! If I do say so myself, we are a mighty fine couple!

Our first stop was cocktail hour and professional pictures. We mingled with some friends. I wanted it to be a wine night, but at $5 a pop (plastic cup!) I opted for the free bud light. Soon we were called into the ball room and took our seats for the ceremony. We watched the commandants message and cut the cake for the oldest and youngest Marines. I was a little surprised when I heard the oldest Marine in attendance was born in 1963, that seems so young. And the youngest in 1992 (....and now I feel ancient!)

Then it was time to eat! We had steak, potatoes and veggies. It was very yummy and everyone ate everything...and more. One of the guys at our table jokingly said it wasn't very good, so they brought him another dinner. Danny said he'd like another too. I never thought they would bring him another one....but they did! Way too funny!

After dinner the dance floor opened up. Leave it to my Hubby to request Cupids Shuffle. And for the second year in a row, SgtMaj danced with us. That's always the highlight of my night!

After some dancing we took some group pictures. My favorite is of me and the guys!

We had so much fun at this years ball. I saw some pretty risque dresses this year - lots of side boob and legs. And a tutu. Why did I not get a picture of that?!

I am so proud to be part of the Marine family. I am so proud to call these guys my friends, and even more proud of my husband. And, as always, Marines really do know how to throw a great party!

Wine & Love

2011-11-10T07:53:00.000-05:00

Happy Thursday! It's time to link up with Walking with Nora to reflect on the good and bad of past week. Make your own list & join in the fun!

*WINES*

Due to lack of storage room, we had to pass on an amazing deal on a fence. I wish we had a house now so we could get the fence!

Speaking of "storage" our spare room is a disaster. There's officially so much stuff in there that organization is impossible. And it needs to be clean in 3 weeks. EEK!

Miley has a vet appointment today. Time to empty out my pockets...these trips are always so expensive.

*LOVES*

Happy 236th birthday to the United States Marine Corps! I can't wait to celebrate tonight!

We finally found a great Chinese food place!! Last weekend I had the best crab rangoon and lo mein I've had in a long time!

I've been catching up with my friend, Natosha. I'm not even sure why we stopped our daily walks and hangouts...but we've been chatting and hangout, which is great!

Our grocery bills have been so small lately. A maximum of $60? I'll take it!

Book Review: Heaven is for Real

2011-11-09T07:23:00.000-05:00

A few weeks ago I got a package in the mail from my Mom. She sent some coupons and goodies, and this book - Heaven is for Real. She said it took her four hours to read. So, during one super boring football Sunday I grabbed the book...

Heaven is for Real is the story of Colton Burpo told by his father, Todd. At four years old Colton had emergency surgery. After surgery Colton begins talking about watching his father worry about him in a different room....and his adventure in heaven.

In heaven Colton meets his sister, that his parents didn't tell him about...and his great-grandfather who died long before Colton was even born. He begins to tell his family about the thrones, the Holy Spirit, and even what Jesus looks like.

Of course, I cried during this book. There was a touching scene where Colton and his dad visited a dying man and Colton says "it's okay, the first person you'll see is Jesus." Yep, bawled like a baby. It's so easy to believe what Colton is saying, when a child experiences these things...how could you not believe.

By the time you are done reading this book, you will believe. I highly recommend this book. You will not regret reading it.

On My Christmas List

2011-11-08T07:33:00.000-05:00

Less than 7 weeks to go until the big day! And we are almost done with our shopping! We've had so much fun shopping for Kaleb, he's going to have a kick-ass stocking! And let's be serious, the stocking was always my favorite part of Christmas. I'm really going to miss opening my stocking next to my sister this year. Add it to the list of reasons why I wish we were going home for Christmas.

This won't be able to fit into a stocking, but it's some stuff that I would really like. I need some new baking stuff. And I'm not talking anything fancy....just a cooling rack and some cookie sheets! Seriously, those things would make me a happy girl!

And guess what? Amazon has some great deals!

Searching for the Perfect Home!

2011-11-06T17:32:00.000-05:00

For a while now we have been going back and forth on where we want to live. Hubby still has two years left in the Marines, and we've decided reenlistment probably will not be happening. So, we need to start planning our future. The biggest question that comes up is "where the heck are we going to live." And boy oh boy, do we have options.

Danny is originally from Ohio. But, it's not an option for us. I've spent little time in Ohio and wasn't a fan....and besides Kaleb, Danny says there is nothing in Ohio. Then there is Massachusetts. Ideally, we would love to move there. But looking at housing costs, budget and tons of other factors....it's probably not in the cards for now. So, that leaves us with North Carolina. Which is great, because we both love it down here! It's close enough to both our families that we could drive if needed and the flights are cheap. And the cost of houses is incredible compared to Massachusetts.

We officially began our search for a home on Friday. We met with a lender and a realtor. We, of course, qualify for a VA loan. We're in the process of taking care of some credit things (if you need help with your credit, I can recommend a great repair person!) and then will be on our way to finding our perfect house!

Our lease isn't up until March, which is around the time some perfect houses will be finished. I've been searching online, found a few houses that I love and that are within our budget. Our realtor says she can already tell what my style is, which is great!

I can't even begin to tell you how excited I am for this process! Let's not lie, I'm totally nervous about it too. And....of course, I'm pinning home ideas like crazy! Here are some things I'm loving!

I don't want to buy a new kitchen set. So, I might be daring and paint our chairs. Our other idea is to stain everything if we get a kitchen with dark cabinets!

I love this idea of hanging pictures from a curtain rod. I even have a table that would look great under it!

I love love love this wall.

I love this organized laundry room....with a makeshift table on top of the washer and dryer!

And, of course, something pretty for the front door!

Mmmmm Pizza!

2011-11-06T07:10:00.001-05:00

Sometimes it doesn't take expensive ingredients to make a yummy meal. In fact, sometimes the most simple meal are the most delicious! It's so easy to order pizza or heat up a frozen pizza...but homemade is just so much better! And homemade is usually much cheaper!

These pizza rolls are crave worth and only have 6 simple ingredients. We made ours with pepperoni, but it would be so easy to put any pizza topping inside. We will be eating these again!

The Pinterest Version:

My Version:

My mouth waters just thinking about them! YUM!

Book Review: Stolen Innocence

2011-11-04T07:29:00.000-04:00

So, I obviously failed at my 52 Books in 52 Weeks goal. I've still been reading though, just not as much as I wanted to! I had so many half-read books laying around the house that I wanted to get rid of. I found a used book store and traded them in for a few more books!

The first book I found was Stolen Innocence by Elissa Wall. This book stuck out to me for a few reasons: memoirs are my favorite, I love learning about different religions.....and I've been on a Sister Wives kick lately.

I have taken many religion classes and have many friends of different religions. But this book was still an eye opener.

Elissa Wall grew up in a very strict polygamous sect. But as she got older it only got stricter. She was forced to leave her fathers home, believed that the prophet wanted another man to be her father....and then was forced to marry her first cousin at the age fourteen. Girls are taught that boys are snakes, on her wedding day she knew nothing about marital relations. Which was the beginning of her sad, sick story. Eventually Elissa leaves the church and her husband....and becomes the first person to testify against Warren Jeffs.

This book was both better and worse than I expected. It's a long book with a lot of names. It was interesting to learn about Warren Jeffs, and to see how easy it was for him to brainwash people. The abuse the she suffered wasn't as bad as I expected (that's a good thing!)

When I finished the book I, of course, did some Googling. It's interesting to see how many people think this is a made up story. Many think that Elissa was not actually abused, that she was simply caught cheating on her husband....and turned on the church to make herself look like the victim.

I recommend this book. It's long...but a quick read!

Wine & Love

2011-11-03T09:18:00.000-04:00

Happy Thursday! It's time to link up with Walking with Nora to reflect on the good and bad of past week. Make your own list & join in the fun!

*WINES*

I went to Starbucks yesterday for a salted caramel mocha. They were out. So, I asked for a pumpkin latte. They were out. I was not a happy camper!

I thought Miley was done with her annoying phase. She must be bored this week cuz she is into everything. So frustrating!

I really really want to go to Disney again. We really want to bring Kaleb, but that's not happening. So, looks like we're not going next year. Grr.

People are rushing the seasons and holidays. The people who were excited for autumn now want winter...it's only November. We still have Thanksgiving before Christmas. All I want is for time to slow down.

*LOVES*

Danny has been at coaches course the past few weeks. He graduates next week, I'm very proud of him!

I bought a pair of jeans at Target in April (maybe.) Even though they didn't fit I refused to return them. I'm happy to say they have been fitting the past few weeks! YAY!

Thanks to Shutterfly and Jumping Jax Designs I got 60 free Christmas cards! Would any one be interested in a Christmas card swap this year!?

I have so much to look forward to! The ball, girls night, Thanksgiving, and Lindsey is coming down for my birthday! So excited!

I have the worlds best sister. She sent me some Halloween goodies: pumpkin pie Hershey kisses and a new Pandora charm!

November To Do:

2011-11-02T07:05:00.000-04:00

There are five weeks in November, so I'm setting myself five "goals." I feel weird calling them goals because they are so simple. So instead, I guess it's a November To Do List. And I love lists!

{1}

Repurpose/Redecorate/Re-something with the bookcase that I found! I've never done something like this, so any help you could give me would be great. I think I might add some wallpaper or fabric to the back. Thoughts?

{2}

Drive more. We haven't been going out that much. I need to stop saying 'no' when Danny asks me if I want to drive. I would ideally like to have my license by February.

{3}

Have a fondue night. We haven't used our fondue pot in such a long time! And I really want to try the pumpkin fondue before it's out of season.

{4}

Spend more time with Miley. Yes, I know I'm home with her everyday...but we need to start doing things WITH her. Now that the cooler weather is here we need to bring her for more walks.

{5}

Read one book every week. That's five books in a month. Totally do-able!

What Do I Need?

2011-11-01T07:20:00.010-04:00

Dear Time: Please slow down. There's officially about 8 weeks until Christmas. And wait for it - one month from today is my birthday. I'm gonna be the big TWO-SIX. And what does one ask for when they turn 26? Something that I'm long overdue for. I'm talking...I got my last ones when I was a junior in college. Way back in 2007.

A blow dryer and straightener. I don't want anything fancy or expensive...I do the same thing with my hair everyday! I know I do want a smaller straightener, the one I have now is really wide and it doesn't work so great with short hair.

Honestly, I'm not picky! Amazon has a ton of different ones. These are the straighteners and the blow dryers.

2nd Annual Halloween with the Colwells

2011-10-31T08:53:00.000-04:00

Me and Danny have been looking forward to the Colwell party since last years party. Last Halloween was crazy....and it's all blamed on cheap tequila, everclear, and apple pie. And large amounts of them! So this year when we got the invite...the first thing I said to Danny was "no shots!"

Since last years party alot of our friends have gotten out of the military or just couldn't make it to the party. This years party was much more low key....but there were still costumes!

And I'll be honest, low key is much more my style these days! We ate some pizza, ~~tried to~~ play some games, and had fun talking and laughing. The apple pie drink made an appearance, which warmed up our insides on the super cold North Carolina night!

I'm hoping we get lots of trick-or-treaters tonight! Danny was working nights last year, so I didn't hand out candy...but this year we are prepared!

Happy Halloween!

Buffalo + Chips + Cheese = HEAVEN

2011-10-30T07:33:00.003-04:00

We love anything buffalo style. Not only do we love the spiciness, but the bleu cheese that comes with it is just as amazing. It generally sucks for the waist line, but when it tastes delicious...who cares?!

I love nachos. Whenever we eat out, that's what I want for an appetizer. So, when I stumbled upon a recipe for buffalo nachos...I knew they were made just for me. FYI: Eat these on a day that calories don't matter...you will want to eat the entire thing. Take my word for it.

The Pinterest Version:

My Version:

I think mine looks so different because I added way too much cheese. But really, is there a such thing as too much cheese?! And take the time to make your own chips, so worth it!

The ABCs of Me: Part 2

2011-10-29T07:23:00.000-04:00

I love doing about me posts! The first part of my ABCs can be found here and I even did my wedding ABCs! If you've ever had a question about me, maybe you'll find the answer in this post!

A. AREA CODE: 978

B. BED SIZE: Full

C. CHORE YOU HATE: I like doing most things around the house. The one thing I refuse to do is clean the toilet...ick! And I really hate mopping, but I still do it....sometimes.

D. DOGS NAME: Miley! When we brought her home we had no clue what to name her...we thought of foods we liked, alcohol we drink...nothing matched her. Jokingly Danny said Miley (it's a running joke that he's a Miley Cyrus fan!) and it stuck!

E. ESSENTIAL "START OF THE DAY" ITEM: Breakfast. I need to eat within minutes of waking up.

F. FAVORITE COLOR: I don't really have one. Maybe green?

G. GOLD OR SILVER: All of my jewelery is silver, which is why I don't buy gold...it wouldn't match! BUT I have seen some cute gold pieces that I like!

H. HEIGHT: Short, 5'2ish.

I. INSTRUMENT YOU PLAY: I played clarinet for maybe two years. I liked band but I hated marching band.

J. JOB: Currently I'm a pretty kickass SAHW. I honestly think it's something that only military wives understand. I might not make money but I save us money.

K. KIDS: One step-son, Kaleb. He'll be 7 in November!

L. LIVING ARRANGEMENTS: Me, Hubby and Miley live in a two bedroom apartment. When we first moved in it was so empty....now we have way too much stuff and are starting to outgrow it!

M. MOM'S NAME: Charlene

N. NICKNAME: I only respond to Nicole and Roomie. Not Nikki!

O. OVERNIGHT HOSPITAL STAY: Never.

P. PET PEEVE: Loud chewing, slow walkers, people who use the word "fag."

Q. QUOTE FROM A MOVIE: I don't really memorize movie quotes...ask me for a favorite song lyric and I can think of a million!

R. RIGHT OR LEFTY: I'm a lefty! Danny and Kaleb are both left-handed too!

S. SIBLINGS: I have a younger sister, Michelle. She'll be 22 this year....which is so weird to think about!

T. TIME YOU WAKE UP: Usually between 7 and 8. But lately when hubby wakes up on the weekends I can't fall back to sleep...so it's been 6:30. EW!

U. UNDERWEAR: I wear it, everyday.

V. VEGGIE YOU DISLIKE: Broccoli rabe. It's a little too bitter for my liking....

W. WAYS/REASONS YOU ARE LATE: We are never late. If anything we are early.

X. XRAYS YOU'VE HAD: Freshman year of college I had pneumonia and broncchitis at the same time, so I had chest x-rays. And one time I was babysitting kids who liked to play golf...I took a golf ball to the head and had to have some x-rays on that!

Y. YUMMY FOOD YOU MAKE: Buffalo chicken mac and cheese, beer and cheese soup, and cheese stuffed meatloaf are my favorites!

Z. ZOO ANIMALS YOU LIKE: The monkeys. It cracks me up how dirty minded they are!

It's a Doll.

2011-10-28T09:03:00.003-04:00

I generally do not blog about controversial things. I steer clear of politics, religion, and anything like that. I don't like getting people riled up and getting nasty comments on my blog. We are all entitled to our own opinions and they don't always have to be the same.

That being said - I do not understand the recent controversy over the new Barbie. Really, I see nothing wrong with this doll.

First, Matel is not gearing it towards kids. This is a collectable doll. If a child ends up with one...that's because an adult bought it for them. And obviously if a parent has no problem giving this doll to their child, you shouldn't have a problem with it either.

Second, tattoos, pink hair, and a cute outfit do not make someone a bad person or influence. Did you know both Teddy Roosevelt and FDR both had their family crest tattooed somewhere on their bodies? Sure, they aren't huge....but what's the difference between one tattoo and a chest full of them?

Finally, just because you play with a toy does not mean that it's going to influence you. It's funny...I played with a cash register when I was little...I'm not a cashier. I had toy cars, remote control cars, and that red and yellow car that everyone had....and guess what, I don't drive. Get the hint? In fact, I did have a ton of Barbies, dressed them up, cut their hair....and I don't have a bad body image (or know how to cut hair.)

So, how about this...it's a doll. Plain and simple. She has tattoos just like 1 in 4 Americans between the ages of 18 and 50. Or 36% of people between the ages of 18 and 29. I bet some of your favorite bloggers even have tattoos that you don't know about.

Thanksgiving at Charlotte Motor Speedway

2011-10-27T09:35:00.000-04:00

For the past two years we have been going to Ohio for Thanksgiving. This year we decided we don't want to travel for the holidays - it costs a fortune to get from Place A to Place B. Of course there are going to be things we miss, Thanksgiving movie with Kaleb, Aunt Edna's delicious food, and personally...I like the road trip. But, we're staying put this year.

Instead of making ourselves a big meal....we are going to volunteer. I think it's a great way to give back to the community that we love.

I wish Charlotte was a little closer. I received this e-mail the other day and now I want to go so bad! Is anyone planning to go to this?!

Lowe's, the Charlotte Motor Speedway and the USO of North Carolina invite our Military and their families for Thanksgiving Dinner at the Charlotte Motor Speedway!

Be our guests for a traditional Thanksgiving feast, a visit by Santa and Mrs. Claus, and a very special performance by Grammy nominated artist, John Parr. Additionally, we invite you to take the opportunity to experience Speedway's Carolina Christmas, one of the largest drive-through light parks in the country after dinner. Carolina Christmas will be one of the largest holiday light shows in the United States, featuring nearly 500 different LED light displays, a realistic Bethlehem-themed village, NASCAR souvenir rigs for Christmas shopping, Santa's Village and themed areas for children with food, music and rides.

Contact Megan Grady at m.grady@uso-nc.org or 704/359-5584 for more information or to reserve your spot! Reservations must be made by Sunday, November 20!

**This offer is for Active Duty, Reserve and National Guard and their families! Dinner and all activities are free of charge! Local hotel discounts are available!

The Buzz

2011-10-25T13:44:00.001-04:00

Every Sunday it's the same routine: wake up, walk the dog, grocery shopping....and the Sunday Haircut. Well, for some reason this week Danny was rebellious and opted not to get a haircut. And honestly, every week? It never looks different....so one week wasn't gonna kill him!

Flash forward to 8PM Monday night. Danny comes out of the bathroom and says "will you try to cut my hair?" My response "I can't promise it will look good, but okay." He got all cranky because I didn't have enough confidence. Well no-freakin-kiddng. I've never aspired to be a hairdresser.

So here's how it played out....

I walk in the bathroom, he hands me the trimmers and says "short then long." Okay, whatever that means. He see's I'm confused and demonstrates. Simple enough. I look at the back of his head and the bottom is clearly grown out. I'm like "jeez is that supposed to come completely off?" Again, lacking confidence. He makes me take a picture.

He tells me to "make it round." Uh...okay then. I did it "short" then "long" and came out with this masterpiece. So uneven.

He grabs the trimmers and tries to make it better. I'm all "well if you can do it yourself why did you ask me?" And man-oh-man did he eff it up!

The next thing I know, this is happening....

Atleast we'll save on haircuts and shampoo!

All I Need for Christmas...

2011-10-25T07:39:00.000-04:00

Just about nine weeks until Christmas. That's scary to think about! This year flew by...I feel like I say that every year. We have started a little bit of our Christmas shopping and I'm still crossing my fingers that Kaleb gets to come down for Christmas. I have some great Santa things planned!!

This is how I know I'm getting old. I can't think of anything I want...so we're moving onto a need. And it's even more sad this this is at the top of Danny's Christmas list too! It's one of those things that I always forget to figure into the budget and we're only reminded of it when Miley runs around the houses with them.

Socks and underwear. Jeez-Louise we are old.

Here are some cute ones! (And today's the last day of BOGO 1/2 off at Aerie...hint hint!)

For the record, I think everything on that website is cute!

My Biggest Pet Peeve

2011-10-24T10:48:00.000-04:00

Most of my pet peeves involve food. I can't stand loud chewers, people who talk with food in their mouths....and crunchy food in general just freaks me out. But there is one thing I really can not stand.

The phrases "ew," "gross," and "you're gonna eat that...." get under my skin. Let me explain why....

It started waaaaay back in elementary school. I wouldn't say I was teased a lot in school (except by those damn twins who used to make fun of me for having boobs...but anyway...) but the lunch room was always torture for me. And it wasn't even like I ate weird food! I vividly remember eating the pepperoni pizza Lunchables and being teased....because apparently the pepperoni looks like something else...hmm...

The lunch room stories continued into high school. I liked to bring my lunch, again nothing weird, but people still teased. Kids are cruel...but whatever.

Senior year I went to England and France with school. I will always remember the list of rules, it was long...but the only thing I remember is....

The worst thing you are allowed to say is "that's interesting."

It was so nice traveling to different countries, trying different foods and knowing that the worst someone could say is "that's interesting." I took full advantage of that! And I was a little disappointed that we didn't get to try really strange food...it was the perfect opportunity to!

Because of that trip, whenever I go to a restaurant (mostly when traveling) I always order what everyone else is afraid of and sometimes the item that no one knows what it is. And I always love it. Think of it this way: if someone else thinks it's good, it must not be that bad.

I went out Saturday night Danny's friends. That was my first mistake. The second was when I ordered the hard cider with Guinness. The bartender thought it was weird, but she's making money off of it...so she didn't care. But I got so many dirty looks from Danny's friends. Um, this was served at the craft beer festival. It's not bad, it's delicious and maybe if you manned up and tried it....you wouldn't be saying "ew."

So, just remember - when you "ew" someones food you are being rude and disrespectful. Try new foods, and if you still don't like it, just say "that's interesting."

It's Plaid Season!

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Pinterest has taught me a lot. It's given me a bunch of DIY ideas, crafting ideas, recipes, and of course...outfits. I have most of the basic pieces, now it's just piecing them together in different ways. And remember to take pictures of the outfits. Hence the crappy iPhone, mirror image pictures for this week!

I really love this weeks outfit. My favorite jeans, my new boots....and a dress that I morphed into a shirt for the day.

The Pinterest Version:

My Version:

Shirt: Forever 21. Jeans: Forever 21. Boots: Target. Phone: iPhone!

Have you ever used a piece of clothing in a way it wasn't intended for? My shirt is a dress....held up with a rubber band!

Free Christmas Cards from Shutterfly

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If you are a blogger, you are going love this. If you love Shutterfly, you are going to really love this. Shutterfly is a great company for bloggers, they offer many opportunities throughout the year just for bloggers. And as a blogger, I'm jumping at the chance to receive 25 free Christmas cards from Shutterfly!

I've used Shutterfly in the past for projects, including our wedding album! And I've even been thinking about wall calendars for Christmas presents! The quality of their pictures is what impresses me the most, they warn you if they know the pictures will come out blurry. I don't know about you, but I don't want to waste money on pictures that don't look right!

I'm already having a hard time picking out what card I'm going to use. But I'm so thankful that we had family pictures taken this summer....everyone is going to love them! There are a few that I'm considering...

The more I look at the cards, the harder the decision is!

Bloggers, if you want a chance to get 25 free cards, sign up here!

Lake Road Winery

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You can check another winery off of our list!

Last weekend after the Chili Festival we decided to take the back roads home. We were driving in the middle of no where, I'm talking....stray dogs wandering around and tons of hunters dressed in camo and orange vests. But since I had my handy wine map....I knew we were headed the right way!

From the outside, Lake Road Winery doesn't look like much. We contemplated whether or not we even wanted to go in...but a friendly old man waved us in, so we couldn't turn back! Inside a golly man and a huge wine tasting area greeted us.

There were ten wines to sample. I didn't even care that it was $5! He pulled out all the wines and started pouring...

And oh-my-goodness. I've never been so happy with ten wines in my life! It's rare that we go to a winery and like all the wines. But this was amazing wine. They had such a great smell, color....and taste. I love talking to our host about the wines and the grapes that they use.

After our tasting he asked if we wanted a picture taken, offered us another sample (we chose our favorite, Doreen) and posed. I wish the picture was better, but it's better than nothing!

Lake Road wines are not sold in stores. BUT they will be at Oktoberfest this weekend in Jacksonville! If you are going to the festival, let me know....I'd love to meet up!

Wine & Love

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I'm linking up with Walking with Nora again this week. This meme is a great way of sharing your wines and loves for the week. So, after you read (and comment!) on mine...head on over and link up your list!

LOVE:
I'm loving the autumn weather. The AC hasn't been on in over a month, instead we've been opening the windows. And it's been worth it...our electric bill was only $55 this month!

WINE:
Every morning it's dark and dreary. Seriously, every morning it's raining...and then a few hours later it's bright and sunny. Make up your mind Mother Nature, my throat, head, and stuffy nose are begging you!

LOVE:
I love my family. We've decided we're not going anywhere for the holidays this year. My family doesn't get mad, make us feel guilty or beg us to travel.

WINE:
Certain family members of my husbands family have resorted to begging us. Family members that I've met for a grand total of 30 minutes, two years ago...who never RSVPed to our wedding, even though I asked her daughter to be in our wedding. And I'm fairly certain she doesn't remember that Danny is married, because she only ask *him* to travel for Thanksgiving. -end rant.-

LOVE:
I love getting mail and packages. I literally can not wait for the mailman to deliver goodies everyday!

WINE:
My mailman will not leave mail if I'm not home. This week I was in the shower when he came....and he left me a notice that I owed 40 cents for a letter someone sent me. I've been avoiding him all week.